I am sure you have an idea of what the "perfect guy" for you would be. I can guarantee 100% that I am not what you were thinking of. That does not mean, however, that I would not turn out to be the "perfect guy." I am not the standard mix of qualities and attributes. I am not remotely what you would expect. But what you would expect is not necessarily what would make you happiest. I'm not saying I am better than the next guy, only that I am very different from the next guy. Whether I would be better for you, well ... that will depend on you.

I've been mulling that over ... I guess if you had to use one word as a descriptive, it would be eccentric. Not by design, but by nature.

What do I do? I make my living as a technical writer (I write manuals on how to use software programs and online services, as well as training programs for both.) Thats not always exciting, but I do love to write and have a finished novel that I intend to publish.

I am also a musician; I have played guitar for as long as I can remember (this lifetime anyway) and love to sing. Karaoke anyone?

I have been doing swing/Latin/ballroom dancing for the last year or so, and that has been a blast. I have a strong interest in other art forms as well, but have done very little exploring in those areas.

I do have an interest in outdoor activities, (drop me in the wilderness with nothing and I will be just fine) however, I find myself more drawn to those activities which involve communication or are otherwise mentally stimulating. I can occasionally enjoy watching sports, but for the most part I would rather be doing than watching.

Gemini

Fit

5' 7 (1.7 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Divorced

Yes - Not At Home

Not Sure

Eyes

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Bald

No pets

Yes

College Degree

Full-time

Computers / Electronic

Technical writer

Yes - Socially

Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious

Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Dancing, Photography, Religion / Spirituality, Travel, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Museum

People talk about the perfect date and where it would be, but I think the perfect date could be anywhere. It doesn't matter so much where we go or what we do, as it does that we are enjoying it all the more because we are doing it together. It doesn't matter if it's skipping stones across a pond, ice-skating, or laughing at a really bad movie that we wish we weren't watching. But at the end of the date you feel happy and spent, that the conversation was truly rewarding. And that regardless of whatever else the relationship may or may not hold; you know that you have a friend.

Friendly, Cool, A Flirt

Spiritual But Not Religious

Not Sure

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure

I Don't Like Tv

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Thriller

Country, Rock, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Folk

Auto-biography, Classic, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Horror, Humor, Instructional, Mystery, Philosophy, Reference, Poetry, Religious, Science Fiction, Technical

Swing, latin or ballroom dancing.
Karaoke.
Good conversation.

Intelligence, Good Looks, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

Date, Intimate, Committed